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The big moments and the little ones

I’ve been a mum for over 5 years now.  Which I suppose isn’t that long in the greater scheme of things.  But for me it seems like a long, long time.  In those 5 years I’ve most likely felt every possible emotion, and had so many special moments with my children.

One of the questions in the pack of coaching cards for new parents that I’ve got is, “what are some of the best moments you’ve had with your baby?”

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This question is a really important one for new parents to think about.

In those early weeks and months it can be easy to get a bit low about things.  You can feel so exhausted that you might not always think about the wonderful moments you’ve had with your baby.

So it’s a lovely idea to sit with a cuppa and think about the best moments you’ve experienced so far.

And I think this is just as important for us parents with older children to do too.  5 years in, my days are often a bit of a blur of school runs and nursery runs, endless sandwich making and coffee drinking to make up for the fact that my nights are still generally disturbed.

I wanted to take a bit of time out from all that, to reminisce about the best moments I’ve had with my babies, even though they’re not babies any more.

Some of them are big moments, some of them are tiny, fleeting ones.  But they’re all wonderful to me.

 

The big moments.

Some of the best moments with both of my children were their first moments.  Those amazing, life-changing moments just after they were born.

With Rhys I was absolutely exhausted by the time he arrived.  So I just felt utter relief.  Relief that he was finally here, safe, in my arms.

Nerys came much more quickly, and I hadn’t had quite as much gas and air, so I felt much more ‘in the room’ when she was born.  So it was a different experience, an amazing experience, to hold her for the first time.

There’s nothing quite like those first few moments with your new baby.  And the first few hours that follow, when you just sort of drink them in.

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The other big moments that I’ve enjoyed most have been the big milestones.

In particular, seeing them walk for the first time.  After months of them trying, there’s something amazing about seeing those first wobbly steps.  The look on their face as they realise what they’re doing.  And then, they’re off.

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The little moments.

I think it’s so often the case in life that the little things are the best.

And as far as the best moments with my babies goes, I really do think this is the case.

When you slow down, and are present in the moment, you experience things you’ll treasure forever.

  • Walking, slowly, with Rhys as a toddler.  And seeing the pride on his face as he told me all the different shapes he could see.
  • Sitting on the edge of my bed, breastfeeding Nerys, and knowing it would be the last time I did it.  Taking the time to take in every last detail of that moment.
  • Listening to Rhys laugh for the first time.  At us saying ‘rusk’ of all things.  Still makes me smile to this day.
  • Lying in bed with Nerys sleeping alongside me.  That wonderful feeling of being the one she needs to feel safe and comforted.
  • Sitting next to Rhys and listening to him read a book, and feeling so proud of how much he’s learning at school, how much he wants to learn.

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There are too many more of these moments to mention.  I could probably fill a book with them.

Maybe I will.

A special book just for me, and my children.

To remember all those little moments, and the big ones too, that have made me so unbelievably happy to be their Mummy.

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A little bit of silver and gold

I’m in my mid-thirties now, and starting to notice the changes in my skin that come with getting older.

So I’ve been thinking more about the products I use, and have started looking at the various lotions and potions out there for different skin types.  Trying to find the right product for me.

I was really intrigued when I was sent an email about 2 new products from noble naturals.  L’or des pharaons and nano silver.

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L’Or des pharoans is an anti-aging face and body mist.  It’s a mix of purified water and ‘monatomic, diatomic and nanoclusters’ of gold, platinum and zinc.  Now, that sounds a bit like jargon to me!  But basically it’s purified water and gold, platinum and zinc particles of a particular size that allows them to be easily absorbed by the skin.

The mist doesn’t contain any allergens or chemicals, and it claims to fight visible signs of aging at a cellular level. As well as rejuvenating your skin.

I’ve not been using it for long enough to notice a difference yet, but can say that it does feel nice on my skin and my moisturiser does seem to sink in nicely after using it.  Time will tell if the gold of the pharaohs will keep me looking youthful!

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The other product I’ve been trying out is the nano silver spray.

This is more of a multi-purpose, first aid box type of spray rather than a beauty one.  And it really interested me.

I’ve seen silver pop up in the past in things like plasters, as it’s reported to help with healing.  And that’s the thinking behind the nano silver spray.

The spray is made up of tiny silver particles that are dissolved in pure water.  You spray it directly onto cuts and sores and it then helps with healing.  It’s also meant to reduce the risk of infection, and scarring.

I’ve used it a couple of times on little cuts and have been really impressed with how well it’s helped them to heal.

I’ll be keeping this little bottle on hand for the next time one of the children falls down and scrams their knee.  They don’t really like creams being put on their cuts so a spray like this might be the answer.

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You can find out more information on these products from the health factory.

I was sent these products to review, but all words and opinions are my own.

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Boohoo children’s clothing review

I don’t tend to go into town and browse in the shops these days.  What I do instead, is sit at home, with a  cup of coffee and browse online.  And one website I love to browse for clothes is boohoo.com.

So I was really happy to find out that they’ve started doing clothes for children too.

The clothes are for children aged 4-12, so there’s nothing suitable for Nerys quite yet, but I had a lot of fun looking through all the options for Rhys.

And with the weather suddenly turning more wintry I was really pleased to fine a lovely warm coat for him.

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The coat is really warm without being too bulky.  And the colour is just lovely, a bit different from what he’s had in the past.

He’s worn it pretty much every day since it arrived and he loves it.

We bought age 5-6 and it fits him perfectly.  Rhys is quite slight though, so if I had a bigger child I might be tempted to get the next size up.

We all really love the coat though, and think he did a great job modelling it for us on a recent trip to the beach!

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I was also really pleased to see that the coat is machine washable.  One of the reasons I wanted to get him a second coat for winter is that he often comes home from school covered in mud.  So it’s important for me to be able to quickly pop a coat in the wash, while he wears the other one for a day or two!

I had wanted to get some trousers for Rhys too, but found there wasn’t much choice in that category.  I’m sure more items will be added as the kids section grows, but for now we ended up choosing a couple of t shirts to add to our order instead.

The first one I chose was this grey t shirt with a spooky/cute bat on it.  I liked the fact that he could wear it for halloween but it wasn’t too halloween-y.  So he can get a fair bit more wear out of it.

I ordered age 5-6 again and thought when it first arrived that it might be a little small.  But luckily as Rhys is pretty slim it fits him just right.

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The second t shirt I chose was this baseball style one.  I love this style of top, and think it looks really cute on Rhys.

The material isn’t quite standard t shirt material though, so I’m waiting to see how well it washes.  For now though, I’m really happy with it.  Although, like the other items we bought it is a little on the small side, which works for us but might not be great for bigger children.

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All in all, I’m really pleased with my experience with boohoo’s children’s range.  I would love to see more items available, but the clothes they do have are reasonably priced and we’re very happy with the quality and design of the bits we chose.

I also found that the items were delivered quickly, and were packaged up well so they arrived in perfect condition.  Also, boohoo often seem to have offers on delivery so it’s worth keeping an eye out for that!

 

I was given credit to spend at boohoo.com, but all words and opinions are my own.

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The one thing that you have

I read quite a lot of blogs.

And I see quite a lot of bloggers get down about their work every now and then.

Sometimes it’s down to writer’s block.  Other times it seems to be down to making the mistake of comparing their blogs, and themselves, to others.

And it’s so easy to do it.

To read a couple of brilliant posts on someone else’s blog and to start to question whether you’re any good or not.

You start to wonder what you’ve actually got to offer to the world of blogs.

And I think the answer to that question is you.  YOU are what you have to offer.  No one else will think, or write, exactly the same way as you.  No one will express things in quite the same tone as you.  YOU are what makes your blog great.

So for any bloggers out there reading this, who are having a bit of a wobble.  This quote is for you:

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The full quote goes like this:

“The one thing that you have that nobody else has is you. Your voice, your mind, your story, your vision. So write and draw and build and play and dance and live as only you can.”

And I think it’s a pretty good quote for us bloggers to keep in mind!

 

 

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We were looking through some old videos the other day.

And we found one in particular of Rhys, called ‘trying to say stuff’.  As the title suggests, it’s Rhys trying his hardest to say stuff.  He’s about 18 months old, and trying his best to say ‘Uncle Phil’.

And it’s just ridiculously cute.

Between attempts at those 2 words he babbles away.  And this isn’t just general babbling, this is fluent gibberish.

Scribble my Mum calls it.

And it’s just amazing to listen to.  You’d swear he was talking a foreign language.  And the thing is, I’d sort of forgotten quite how much he used to jabber away.

It’s quite funny to look back and see it again.

He still does it now see.  He talks and talks and talks.  So it’s funny to look back and be reminded that that is just part of his nature.  He is a little chatterbox.

It’s just that now he rambles on about Minecraft instead of who-knows-what!

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I took this photo of him on a trip to Caswell at the weekend.

And while he looks so grown up to me, I can just about see that scribble-talking toddler still in there.  And that makes me really happy.

 

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The book of everyone – review

It’s the age old question isn’t it.  What do you get for the person who has everything?!

We all have at least one person on our ‘list of people to buy things for’ who doesn’t actually want/need anything for Christmas.

So, what on earth do you get for them?

I’ve always ended up going down the gift card route.  But now I’ve found another option.

The book of everyone!

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If you’ve never heard of them before, these books are just fab.  And so easy (and fun) to create.

You just go to the website, enter a few details about the person you’re making the book for and then it creates a preview for you.

Then you have the really fun part of going through and customising it.

We decided to make a ‘book of mum’ recently for my mother-in-law’s birthday, so went for a lovely pink cover and set the title of the book to ‘the book of mum’.

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We then had a lot of fun going through and finding all the different pages that we could personalise, to make it extra special for her.

It’s really easy to click through the book preview and edit the bits you want to change.  There are pages where you can write in quotes or sayings that are personal to the person the book is for.  You can also change the images used, the colours and the wording on some pages.

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The books are really lovely and colourful and all the different illustrations really make it stand out and grab your attention.

And there is a great mixture of random facts, fun pictures and lovely quotes throughout the book.

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When the book arrived I had a little nose at it to see what it was like before giving it to my mother-in-law, and I was so impressed with it.

We chose the paperback option, but it still felt lovely and sturdy; really great quality.

I love how you can have a quick flick through the book and pick out some fab little facts about the person it was made for.

But you can also sit down and take your time to properly read through it and really appreciate how personal it is.

I can see this being the kind of present that gets looked at again and again over the years.

And I love how you can make something so lovely and personal in a really short amount of time.  It’s perfect for busy parents who are trying to get a present sorted with children hanging off them and shouting for snacks!

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You can buy the book of everyone as a paperback for just £19.50 (delivery is included in that price), or you can make it extra special and get a hardback copy.  Or if you’re buying for someone who spends all their time online you can even just buy a digital copy.

There are also a few variations on the book of everyone available.  So if, for example, you want to celebrate a milestone birthday then you can chose the book of everyone’s milestones edition.  There’s even a brilliant Christmas edition, just perfect for this time of year!

So there you have it, the perfect, fun, personalised present for that person on your list that you just don’t know what to buy for.  You’re welcome!

 

I was given a book of everyone to review for this post, but all words and opinions are my own.

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Hey workout review

Back at the start of the summer I wrote a post about how it was time to get back into exercise.

And as part of that I tried out a 3 month membership with Hey Workout.

If you’ve not heard of them before then I highly recommend you go and check them out.

Basically, you sign up for membership on their website and then you get access to all their webcam fitness and yoga classes.  So what that means is, you watch the class live online and, if you want to, you can turn on  your webcam so the instructor can see you too.

They’ll then give you feedback and help throughout the class.

So it’s like going to a class, with the professional feedback to make sure you’re doing everything right, but without having to leave your house!

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And if you can’t make it to the live classes then you can just play them back at a later date.  There’s a big library on the website with loads of different workouts to chose from.

Class options include:

  • Prenatal and postnatal yoga
  • Legs, bums and tums
  • Vinyasa yoga
  • Back and arm tone
  • HIIT – High Intensity Interval Training

I would say, if you’ve not exercised for a while, make sure you ease yourself in with some of the more gentle classes!

The classes might only be 30 minutes long but you really work for that time, so be prepared!

Now, I’ll be honest with you all here.  When I first signed up for my trial I was all geared up for making a change and getting back into some sort of a routine of exercising regularly.  But then I came down with a nasty throat infection, and life in general happened and things didn’t quite go to plan.

There’s a whole other post in there somewhere, about how to make exercise a priority and how to fit it in to a busy life, but that’s something for another day!

I honestly think though, if I had made attending the Hey Workout classes a priority then I would’ve seen great results.

Before I got ill I did several different classes and thought they were great.

The first class I did felt a bit strange to begin with as there’s no music playing, and I’m used to exercise dvds that always have music on alongside the trainer’s chat!

But after a few minutes I stopped noticing that, and in a way felt that the lack of music made it easier to focus on the technique and the moves.

If music is important to you though, you might want to have a cd ready to play when you go to do a workout!

The trainers at Hey Workout are all really experienced, and passionate about what they do.  And that comes through when you workout with them.  I found having them do all the moves with me, and counting down the reps as they do them, really helped drive me to keep going.

Sometimes if you go to a class at the gym the instructor will demonstrate the move and then stop, and I much prefer this approach where I feel like they’re in it with you!

So, if you don’t feel like you can make it to the gym for a workout, but want something a little bit more interactive than a dvd, then Hey Workout is a really good option.

If you click on the image below you’ll be taken to a page where you can sign up for a 14 day free trial, so you can see for yourself how good it is.

What have you got to lose?

 

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I was gifted a 3 month trial with Hey Workout in exchange for my honest review.  All words and opinions are my own.