Tips to prepare for your next job interview

The tips you need to know to prepare for your next job interview

If you’ve ever had an interview for a job you’ll know how nerve-wracking it can be.

When you’re looking for a new job though, being asked to go along for an interview is all part of the process.  And there are lots of things you can do before the interview that can hopefully make you feel a lot calmer and in control on the day.

Here are my tips for how to prepare for your next interview so you can really shine.

The tips you need to know to prepare for a job interview

Fake it till you make it

I’m not talking about lying about how much experience you have, or the companies you’ve worked at in the past.

I’m talking about faking confidence, even if you feel really nervous.

Sometimes just acting as if we’re confident can give us a real confidence boost.

And if we go into an interview with an air of confidence then it will help convince the interviewers that we’re capable and well-suited to the job.

Amy Cuddy, a social psychologist, did a TED talk about confidence and power poses, and in that she mentions that quite often the way you act and the presence you bring to an interview counts more than the actual content of the interview.

You might not always give the best answers, but if you talk with confidence and seem comfortable and enthusiastic you’ll still come across really well.

 

Do your research

Have a look at the company’s website and get to know as much as you can about them.  You’ll feel much more confident going in to the interview if you know a bit about the background of the company, what their main aims are and what the ethos is like.

If you’re looking for jobs in a new town then do some research into the area too.

So if you currently live in London but are trying to find jobs in Manchester, then spend some time researching what the city itself is like, and what the general work culture there is like.

 

Plan your outfit

Think about the job you’re going for, and dress appropriately for the interview.

For most jobs in the corporate world you want to look smart.  So think knee length skirts or tailored trousers and a shirt or smart top.  If you’re going for a more senior role then you’ll be better off going for a suit.

Give some thought to the colours you choose to wear too.  It’s generally best to stick to classics like navy blue and grey, as they’re often associated with confidence and stability.  You might be tempted to go for something bright, like red, to help you stand out from the crowd but it’s probably best to stick to using it as an accent colour if the job you’re going for is in a more formal environment.

 

Double check the details

Make sure you have the right date and time for your interview written down on your calendar or noted in your diary.

Plan how you’re going to get to the interview, and how long it will take you to get there.  Make sure that if you’re driving you allow enough time for traffic, and think about where you’ll be able to park on the day.  If you’ll be using public transport then check times in advance, and maybe think about getting a slightly earlier bus than necessary to allow for any delays.

Make a point of finding out who will be interviewing you so that you can memorise their names.  You’ll make a good first impression if you use the interviewer’s name when you first meet them, as research has found that we feel more engaged with people when they use our name.

 

Prepare some STAR answers

A lot of interview questions will be along the lines of, “tell me about a time you…”.

So things like, “tell me about a time you worked as part of a team” and “tell me about a time your dealt with a difficult customer”.

Preparing some answers for these standard questions can help you feel much calmer on the day, rather than worrying about having to think of something on the spur of the moment.  And the best way to put your answer together is to use the STAR method.

STAR stands for Situation, Task, Action, Result and these are the four points you want to cover in your answer.

If you’re asked the question about dealing with a difficult customer, you would need to describe the situation that you were in and the task you were trying to achieve.  Then you would explain what action you took to resolve the issue and what the resulting outcome was.

There are so many behavioural interview questions you might be asked, that would require a STAR answer, so have a look online at various ones that might come up and prepare some answers.

 

Prepare some questions

At the end of the interview it’s highly likely that you’ll be asked if you have any questions, and most interviewers like it if you have a couple to ask.

It’s also a good idea to ask a few questions to make sure that you actually want to work there.  Remember the interview isn’t just about convincing them to hire you, it’s a chance for you to find out if the job would be a good fit for you.

Questions about the culture of the company and what your day to day responsibilities would be if you got the job are always good, safe options.

 

Take notes

If you’re really worried that you’ll go blank in the interview, make a few notes to take in with you.  There’s no rule that says you can’t do this, and many interviewers would be happy to see that you’ve clearly prepared for the interview.

You should also take along two copies of your CV, so you have one you can pass to the interviewer and one to keep yourself as another point of reference during the interview.

While we’re on the subject of things to take into the interview with you, it’s worth noting a few things you shouldn’t take in.

If you stop at the coffee shop on the way to the interview, make sure you finish your drink before entering the building, don’t take your cup into the interview with you.  Don’t chew gum either, or take any snacks to munch on while you talk.

Go easy on the perfume or aftershave too.

 

Hopefully with all this advice you’ll be fully prepared for any interview and can go along feeling calm and confident and ready to shine.

 

Disclaimer: this is a collaborative post

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Living Arrows 2018 – 25/52

Last week was a bit of a funny old week.

One of those weeks where you’re quite busy, and seem to do a fair few things, but nothing that you end up taking photos of.

So despite a fun weekend that included a swimming party (which both children absolutely loved), swimming lessons, another birthday party and Sunday lunch with my in-laws, this week’s Living Arrows photo is from Sunday night bath-time.

Living arrows

Quite a lot of the time now Rhys and Nerys will take it in turns going in the shower before bed, instead of having a bath.

Which means that when they do have a bath it feels that little bit more special again now.  I love that they’ll still happily get in the bath together, and they have a blast playing together with their bath toys and the piles of bubbles that I like to put in.

I have no idea what game they were playing together last night, but it must have been fun because they were giggling away together the entire time.

I really must remember to try and get some video footage next time, because that sound of them playing and laughing with each other is one that I never want to forget.

 

Living Arrows
Ideas for enjoying the great outdoors as a family in the summer

Family friendly ideas for enjoying the great outdoors this summer

When the sun comes out and the days get longer we seem to naturally want to spend more time outside.

It can be hard sometimes though, to think of things to do as a family other than heading to the local park.

If you’re a bit lost for things to do, here are some fun, family-friendly ideas for ways to enjoy the great outdoors this summer.

Family friendly ideas for enjoying the great outdoors this summer

 

Go rock hunting

Or paint your own then head outside and find somewhere fun to hide them.

Have you come across this in your local area yet?  It seems to be slowly taking off here in Swansea.  It’s sort of like a big, ongoing game of hide and seek but with fun, painted rocks.  So you paint a rock, write a note on the back telling people where to post about it on Facebook when they find it and then hide it somewhere outside.

If you find one, take a photo of it and share it on the Facebook group that’s written on the back and then take it somewhere else to hide it again for someone else to find.

 

Hit the beach

If you’re as lucky as we are and live close to the coast then heading to the beach is a great way to spend time together as a family.

With all the paddling and swimming in the sea, building sandcastles and digging holes, along with the lovely sea air I always find we come away from the beach feeling happy and ready for a good night’s sleep.

If you don’t live near the coast then you can really make a day of it and jump in the car or hop on a train to the beach.

Family friendly ideas to enjoy the great outdoors this summer visit the beach

Sleep under the stars

One thing we’ve not done yet as a family, but that my children would love to try, is camping.

Now that they sleep quite well I might be tempted to give it a try this summer.  I can definitely see the appeal of camping somewhere on Gower and waking up right by the beach in the morning.  And glamping sounds like even more fun, and perhaps a little more comfortable.

If you’re not up for camping in the middle of nowhere, you could still have so much fun doing it in your back garden (if it’s big enough).  And that way you’re right by all the comforts of home if you need them!

You can get some really lovely garden and camping bell tents these days, which you could easily pack in the car to take to a campsite or put up in the garden to sleep in at night and then let the children use as a playhouse during the day.

 

Visit the woods

On those summer days that aren’t all sunshine and blue skies you can still have great fun in the great outdoors by heading for the local woods to go exploring.

My children love wandering round our local woods, playing with sticks and seeing how far they can throw stones into the stream.

There are some great health benefits to walking in the woods too, including helping us feel less stressed thanks to the special phytoncides that some forest trees emit.  These phytoncides have been found to reduce our levels of cortisol, the stress hormone.

Family friendly ideas to enjoy the great outdoors this summer walk in the woods

Go on a walk with a difference

If you find that your children are a bit reluctant to go out for a simple walk, then try making it more fun by going on a treasure trail.

You can download a booklet from the treasure trial website which then leads you on a walk as you solve around 20 clues to solve a mystery.  It sounds like so much fun, getting the whole family outside and working together to find the answers.  There are trials all around the UK and as much as possible they’ve been made accessible for wheelchairs and buggies.

 

Give geocaching a try

If you have children that are slightly older then geocaching is a great idea for making a walk more interesting.

Anyone can join in with geocaching and it’s completely free, you just need a mobile with GSP enabled on it.  If you’ve not heard of it before, then here are the basics of geocaching.  Someone will take a waterproof box and put a little log book and pen inside, along with a little item like a toy, or foreign coins or a decorative button.

They’ll then hide the box somewhere and upload the coordinates of the place they’ve hidden it to the website.  Other people will then get the coordinates and go hunting for the box.  When they find it they make a note in the log book so say when they were there.  If they want to they can take the little trinket from the box and put something new in there for the next person to find.

 

I hope these ideas have got you raring to go and ready to head out the front door and spend as much time as possible in the great outdoors this summer.

What other things do you like to do as a family that get you out and about?

 

Disclaimer: this is a collaborative post

Siblings hugging on a beach

The siblings project – June 2018

I can’t believe it’s time for another siblings project post, the weeks seem to be flying by at the moment.

Luckily I remembered in time to get some photos of Rhys and Nerys together on our trip to the beach last weekend.  They’re not quite as picture-perfect as the photos I managed to get last month, but they do perhaps show the children’s personalities a little bit more!

Siblings project June 2018

In case you’re wondering, that’s a dogfish egg case in Rhys’ hand in the top two photos.  Also known as a mermaid’s purse apparently.  I don’t think I’d ever really come across them until recently but we seem to be seeing them every time we go to the beach at the moment and Rhys being the way he is loves to pick them up and examine them.

I’m pleased I thought to snap these photos when we first arrived at the beach because it really wasn’t too long before both children had stripped off and started swimming in the sea.

Rhys has been having swimming lessons for a while now and has come on really well.  He absolutely loved being able to go out a bit deeper in the water and practice his front crawl and back stroke.  Nerys on the other hand hasn’t started lessons yet, but has really loved being in the water recently.  She’ll be starting lessons in September hopefully and I think she’ll come on quite quickly having waited till she was that bit older to start.

She’s desperate to be able to do the things that Rhys and his friends can do though, and I have to keep reminding her that she is 3 years younger than they are so they will be faster/stronger/better than her at some things.

I suppose that’s quite common with siblings isn’t it?  For the younger one to want to be just like their older brother or sister!

 

The Siblings Project - Dear Beautiful
Living Arrows

Living Arrows 2018 – 24/52

Anyone else feel like they’re almost on a countdown already to the end of the school year?

The first week back after half term flew by and it feels like it’ll be the summer holidays before we know it.  And I have quite mixed feelings about it.  Part of me is looking forward to the long holidays, the change of pace, the break from routine and getting to spend loads of time with the children.

The other part of me is quite sad for what the end of this school year means.

It means the end of afternoons with my little girl.  She’ll be in school all day come September, and it really feels like the end of era.  She’ll be ready for it, I’m sure, but I think it’ll take me a bit of time to feel ok about it.  Starting full time school feels like the first step in letting them go, and that’s just so bittersweet.

I still have time though. 

These last precious weeks of term, when it’s just me and her every afternoon.  I want to slow down and soak it all up and set it firmly in my memory, these days when she’s still little and still mine.

Living Arrows

We went to the beach again this weekend, and she stripped off and had a whale of a time in the sea.

I stood back, watching, taking photographs.  Steve was the one with her, acting as her safe harbour.  To start with she stayed right by him, reaching for his hand to steady herself.  Then she started to get bolder, and slowly but surely moved that little bit further away, out into the water.

It felt quite symbolic to watch.  And quite wonderful too.

I hope I feel the same way watching her head into school on that first day in September.

Just don’t get me started yet on how I feel about Rhys moving into year 3, and the juniors, at the same time!

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#ShowYouWereThere round up

‘Show you were there’ round up

Sunday morning has rolled around again, and that can only mean one thing.

Time for another round up from my little Instagram community #ShowYouWereThere.

My first pick is from Alex at That Butterfly Effect.  I think the new short hair really suits Alex, and she looks amazing!  I used to have quite short hair when I was younger, but I’m not sure I’m brave enough to go for it again now.  I always think it looks great on other people though!

 

Next up is this gorgeous photo from Lucy at Mrs H’s favourite things.

I always love seeing Lucy’s photos and reading her honest and open words, and this post was no exception.  For me beauty is so much more than the way someone looks and the features they happen to have been born with.

So much of it comes down to the person inside shining through.  And in every way possible I think Lucy really is beautiful.

 

My third choice is this lovely photo with an important message from Rhi at Mummy of Four.

I’m so happy to see Rhi using #ShowYouWereThere and sharing her message about how important it is that we lead by example for our children and love and celebrate who we are.

 

My last pick for this week is from Lyndsay at Fizzy Peaches.

I just think this is such a sweet moment that Lyndsay has captured, and I always love a good bump photo!

 

Thank you so much to everyone who is using #ShowYouWereThere, I love seeing your photos popping up over on Instagram, they always make me smile so much.

 

Now my turn.

Last weekend we spent a lovely sunny morning at the beach and I took the camera along to get some family photos for the me and mine project.

While we were there I got Steve to take a few photos of me, and he got some like this one that I really like.  I tend to live in jeans and t shirts so it’s quite nice to have some photos of me actually wearing a skirt!

Show you were there

 

If you’d like to join in with my little community and possibly be featured in my next round up (with a nice link back to your blog!) then just share a photo of yourself over on instagram using #ShowYouWereThere.  It’s all about getting more parents in more photos.  And if you’d like to take part in my guest post series ‘The photo I’m thankful for‘ then take a look at this post or email me at thisgloriouslife@gmail.com for more information.

fun greeting card for cyclists

A simple bike themed greeting card #BostikBloggers

If you need a birthday card, or Father’s day card maybe, for someone who loves bikes and cycling, then this simple bike themed card might be just what you need.

It’s really quick and easy to make, and you only need a few materials to be able to put it together.

simple bike themed greeting card

Here’s what you’ll need:

  • A card blank, or piece of card folded in half
  • 2 buttons
  • Glue
  • A pen (or a few pens in different colours if you fancy something more colourful)

Bike themed fathers day birthday card what you need

 

Making the card is really super easy.

First you need to glue the two buttons down for the wheels of the bike.  Then draw the rest of the bike around them.  I’m not the best at drawing so kept my bike really simple but you could draw something a bit more elaborate if you wanted to and have the skills!

bike themed button card fathers day birthday

 

Then all that’s left to do is write the caption above the bike.

I used the caption ‘have a wheelie great day’, and went with simple handwriting.  Full disclosure here, I wrote the phrase directly on my card first and it went a bit wonky.  So I wrote it again on a little piece of card and stuck that over the original writing.  I actually quite like how this looks, as it gives a slight 3d element to the card.

If you’d rather you could type the phrase on the computer and play around with different fonts to find something you like.  Then just print it out small enough to fit on the card, and stick it on.

Have a wheelie great day simple bike theme greeting card

And there you have it.

A really simple greetings card for the bike (and pun) lover in your life.  I think this card would be great for Father’s day and for birthdays, or even just as a general note card for people who still like to send letters in the post!

You don’t have to use this phrase either, you could go with something like ‘I think you’re wheelie great’ or ‘I wheelie love you’, pretty much any phrase that would normally have the word ‘really’ in it.

 

If you’ve still got more buttons lying around to get creative with, then this family cycling picture idea from Kelly Allen Writer looks like a fab crafty activity to do with your children.

 

Disclaimer: I was sent a box of craft items for the purposes of this post, but all ideas, words and photos are my own.