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My tips and tricks for surviving cold season with children – #VicksTricks

 

We’ve not had the best start to the year, health-wise.

I’ve had bug after virus after cough after cold since new year’s eve.

And Rhys and Nerys have been up and down with various colds and tummy aches and fevers.

So we’ve picked up some tricks over the last few weeks to keep us all as happy as we can be while we’re trying to fight off these bugs.  Here goes:

 

Ease the congestion.

To help ease the congestion that comes with a cold I’ve been using VapoRub.  Both on the children and on myself.  I’ve been rubbing it on our chests before bed to help unblock our noses.  And when my nose has been really blocked up I’ve added a little blob of VapoRub to a bowl of hot water and used the steam to help.

If you have a really little one who’s all stuffy-nosed, then you can pop them into a bouncer and bring them into the bathroom when you have a shower.  The warm, moist air will help them breathe a bit more easily.

 

Take it easy.

Rest is one of the most important factors in getting over a cold.

And while it’s easier said than done to rest when you have children, I’ve been trying to get to bed earlier than normal to get some extra sleep in.  And I’ve been encouraging Rhys and Nerys to cwtch up on the sofa when they’ve been poorly.

We read books together, and settle in with some Doc Mcstuffins on the tv.  Vicks’ research found that 75% of British parents put the tv or a film on when their children are unwell, and just over a quarter of parents read to their children, so it seems I’m in good company doing the things I do!

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Ease a cough.

To help with a cough you can try the popular trick of putting some VapoRub on the soles of your child’s feet, and then covering them up with warm socks at bedtime.

And a warm honey and lemon drink (if they’re over a year old) can be really soothing.  It can also help with staying hydrated, which is really important when you’re under the weather.

My children are generally good at upping their fluid intake when they’re unwell, and we help this by always making sure they have water or squash nearby to drink as often as they can.

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Take their minds off it.

We all know that distraction is a classic weapon in a parent’s arsenal, and it can really come in handy when children are feeling unwell.  Taking their minds off feeling poorly can work wonders.  Gentle activitites like jigsaw puzzles and simple crafts are great options to keep them occupied.

Or you could play entertainer for the day and put on a puppet show or do some magic tricks for your children.

Vicks have put together a couple of videos that you can watch to learn some quick and fun magic tricks to impress your family.  I think this sliced banana one is my favourite.  It brings back memories of being ill when I was little.  My Mum would always make me banana sandwiches to make me feel better.  I’ve not had one for years, but can still remember exactly what they tasted like!

 

Clean up your act.

Since we’ve had so many bugs around, I’ve been really aware of trying to stop germs spreading too much around our house.  So there’s been lots of washing of towels and bedding, and wiping down of door handles in recents days and weeks.

And I’ve been encouraging the children to wash their hands well throughout the day.  I actually read something quite interesting the other day, about teaching children healthy habits like washing their hands.  The research found that children learn better if we explain to them why they need to do things.

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It seems that if we just ask them to wash their hands more they most likely will forget or just not do it.  But if we explain to them about how germs make people ill, and that washing our hands can help stop germs spreading around, then they’ll be more likely to do it.

Nerys is still a bit too young to understand this, but the research found that children aged 4 and over were able to learn about how germs spread, and then take action to help stop it.

 

Stop it in its tracks.

When you’re looking after poorly children, the last thing you want is to fall ill yourself.

So I’m keeping this little bottle of first defence spray in my medicine cabinet.  At the very first sign of a sniffle I’ll be using it to ward off the cold.

I’ve still not managed to shake the virus that hit me at the start of the year, and the last thing I want is to get a cold on top of it.  Or worse, just after I finally start to feel well again!

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So I’m stocking my medicine cabinet with cold products.

And I’m making sure I drink plenty of water and trying to improve my diet to get as much goodness as I can into my body.

Do you have any magic tricks to help with cough and cold season?  I’d love to hear them!

 

This post is an entry for the #VicksTricks campaign

 

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Listen to the little things

Rhys is a talker.

Some days it feels like all he does is talk.  He’ll talk to himself as he’s playing, and he’ll talk to us at every possible opportunity.

And, honestly, some days it’s just exhausting.

Some days I long for a few moments of quiet.

Some days I don’t really want to hear about Minecraft or Roblox or Pokemon.

There are times when I have to ask him to please, just hush for a bit.  Just give me 5 minutes of quiet.

And then I feel bad.  I feel awful asking my son to stop talking.

Because he just wants to share with me.

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My son wants to talk to me about the things he’s passionate about.  And is it his fault that I’m not passionate about those things too?

No.  It’s really not.

At his age, it’s not his job to edit what he talks about.  Or how much he talks about it.

It is my job to listen to him.  To at least try to be interested in the things he cares about.

It’s not easy.

And I hate to admit it but there are times when I let my lack of interest show.  There are times when I sigh at hearing the words, “Mummy, can I tell you something?” for the 20th time that hour.  Because I know it’ll be another thing about something he’s seen in Minecraft.

But I am so aware that I need to listen more.  And to listen with interest.

I need to listen now to the things that matter to him.  Because I need him to know that he can talk to me and that I will hear him.

As he gets older I want him to be able to open up to me.  To tell me what’s on his mind.  To discuss his hopes and fears and dreams with me.

If listening to his endless chatter about Minecraft now means he’ll talk to me about the big issues when he’s older, then surely it’s worth it.

I just need to remember that it’s also ok to take breaks every now and then, even if it’s just leaving the room to put the washing on, or make a cup of tea.  Just to relish the quiet for a second!

 

Cuddle Fairy
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Living arrows 2017 – 7/52

This little boy ended last week with a lovely spot of impetigo on his face.

A trip to the doctor resulted in cream and antibiotics which are doing a great job of clearing it up.  But it meant that we really didn’t get up to much at all this past week.

This photo, as a result, is a little bit of a cheat.  

It’s from last weekend when we did make it out as a family to the beach.

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You can see the little sore spot just starting to come out on his face in this photo.

I love the picture though.

Is there anything better when you’re little than a ride on someone’s shoulders?!

Rhys tends to be so full of energy, I think we all knew something was up when he was a bit quieter than usual last weekend.

We’re all still just a bit run down here, I really think we could do with a change in the weather.  Or something, anything, to just blast this meh-ness away.

Anyone have any tips to get us all feeling well again?

 

“You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth”

 

 

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3 interesting psychological effects of washing your hands

We have been the house of lurgy since the start of the year.

And now we have a new addition to our list of ailments.  Rhys has impetigo.

So I spent yesterday washing all our towels on the hottest cycle possible and wiping the house down with antibac spray.

The thing with impetigo is it can spread really easily.  So now more than ever I’m trying to drum into Rhys how important it is for him to wash his hands.

And all this hand washing led me to a spot of internet research.

And it turns out, there’s more to washing our hands than just keeping them physically clean.

There are some really interesting psychological effects to handwashing.

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1. Washing your hands can make you feel comfortable with your decisions.

We’ve all had those times when we make a decision, and then start to question whether we made the right choice or not.

Research carried out at the University of Michigan found that washing your hands straight after making a decision can put a stop to that doubt.  It’s as if washing your hands washes away any doubt that you might have made the wrong decision.

One of the researchers, Spike Lee, explains:

“Our studies show that washing your hands can symbolically “wipe away” these concerns… Once you washed your hands, you seem at ease with your decision and no longer need to do the mental work that makes the chosen alternative look much better than the rejected one.”

So next time you make a decision that you’re not 100% certain about, go and give your hands a wash to get rid of any last trace of that doubt.

 

2. It can change your luck.

Well, it can change how lucky you feel.  Think about how people on a winning streak often refuse to wash their ‘lucky’ socks, or shirt, or whatever.

They don’t want to wash away the luck by washing the item.  Well a study by Xu, Zwick and Schwarz in 2011 found that this idea translates to washing our hands too.

They set up a situation where people experienced ‘bad luck’ when gambling.  The people who washed their hands after this run of bad luck carried on betting afterwards as if they had forgotten all about their bad luck.

Those who didn’t wash their hands though, were more cautious with their future bets.

So if you want to move on from a spell of bad luck, try washing it away with soap and water.

 

3. Washing your hands can convince other people to do the same.

A public health study was carried out in 2009 that showed various messages to people as they went into public toilets.  There were messages like “don’t be a dirty soap dodger” and “water doesn’t kill germs, soap does”.

But the message that had the biggest effect was “Is the person next to you washing with soap?”.

Which makes sense when you think about it.

We so often are led by what other people are doing.  If we notice that another person in the toilet with us is washing their hands with soap, then we may well be more likely to do the same.

So I’ll be encouraging Rhys to wash his hands properly with soap by reminding him that this is what I do.  And by letting him see me wash my hands thoroughly as often as possible.

As for Nerys, she quite likes washing her hands anyway so doesn’t really need any encouragement!

 

So, there you have it.

Something to think about next time someone in your family is sick and you’re washing your hands for the thousandth time that day!

 

 

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The ultimate cure

I’ve lived in Swansea for nearly 17 years now.

That’s 17 years of having the sea right there.  And it still makes me feel better every time I see it.

In a recent Living arrows post I wrote that I think there’s something special about sea air.  And I really do believe that.

Something about a walk on the beach soothes me.

The sound of the waves.  The gentle rhythm of the tide.  The salt in the air.

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This quote really makes sense to me.

The cure for anything is salt water: sweat, tears or the sea

If I’m feeling sad, or angry or any other negative emotion then I know that one of those three things will help make me feel better.

Working up a bit of a sweat, having a good cry or breathing in some sea air can do wonders for me.

How about you?

 

 

Cuddle Fairy
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Living arrows 2017 – 6/52

This past weekend has been all about little trips to the beach.

My brother-in-law is visiting from the Isle of Man with his wife and daughter, so we’ve been making the most of any windows of sunshine and heading out for a run on the beach in Swansea bay.

Our niece is a month older than Nerys, and it’s so amazing to watch the two of them together.

They only see each other a few times a year, but they get on so well when they are together.

And they’ve been really enjoying these little trips to the beach together.  Along with Rhys, they’ve built sandcastles and run away from waves and generally just enjoyed being together.

So this week’s Living Arrows photos are from one of our Swansea bay outings.

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I love this photo of Nerys.  The hint of cheekiness in her eyes, and her slightly windswept hair.  One day we’ll give in and take her for a haircut, but for now we both just love her hair the way it is.  With it’s random curls and crazy double crown.

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As for Rhys, well he really does need a haircut!  His hair seems to suddenly grow overnight.

One day it’s fine, the next it’s right in his eyes and round his ears.  So that’s a job for the next week or two!

I love this photo of him too though.  Steve was stood behind me making him laugh so I could get this picture, and I just love his expression.

I can’t help but smile along with him when I look at it!

“You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth”

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Me and mine – January 2017

Every month I see these lovely family photos pop up on my newsfeed.  Bloggers and photographers taking part in the me and mine project, which aims to get us all in front of the camera once a month as a family.

This is the year I really hope I will manage to join in every single month.

And I’m off to a good start.  We have a family portrait for January!

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This was taken by my mother-in-law in Victoria park in Swansea.

We had finally made it out of the house for a walk on the beach all together, after weeks and weeks of me feeling ill with a virus that I just can’t seem to shift.

Most weekends I’ve ended up heading back to bed for a lie down in the afternoons, my body just badly in need of rest to try and fight this bug off.  Which means we’ve not really been out and about that much this month.

So even though I was still bunged up and coughing, it was really lovely to head out in a window of sunshine and breathe in some sea air.

And I’m really pleased that we went, and that I took the camera along, so we could all cwtch in together and get this photo.

Hopefully the rest of the year will be a bit less germy and offer plenty more family photo opportunities!

 

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