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Living Arrows 2020 – 21/52

Half term.

I can’t quite get my head around the fact that we’ve spent the last half term at home.

Most of the time we’ve just sort of been getting on with it all, to the point that it all feels quite normal for us all to just be at home.  Then I actually stop and think about it and realise quite how mad this situation is.

It does make me feel better about the days when I struggle and the children struggle.

This is such a bizarre time we’re living through.  I don’t think any of us ever thought we would experience something like this, when our children would be out of school for such an extended amount of time.

Of course we’re going to have hard days.  Or course we’ll struggle to process it all.

What is so surreal about it all though is that, a lot of the time, things are good.  We’re happy.  We’re incredibly lucky to be together, and to be healthy.  Days have lost all meaning, in the best possible way.  We can go for walks through the park, as a family, on a random Tuesday afternoon.

We can sit out in the sun, listening to the birds singing louder than ever, noticing the seasons changing around us.

The thought of going back to the old routine of school days and clubs and swimming lessons is really strange now to be honest.

I still don’t know when the schools will open up again here in Wales, and even once they are open I’m assuming it’ll be quite a while before the school week is anything close to ‘normal’.

I do wonder how different life and the world will look when we do start coming out the other side.

Nerys quite often talks about the things she wants to do ‘when this is all over’, and I do find it quite strange to think about.  At the moment I just can’t imagine going out and doing the things we would normally be doing.

We went out to the supermarket yesterday and I noticed when we got home that I instinctively pushed the kitchen door open with my elbow, feeling like a surgeon on their way to theatre having scrubbed their hands clean.

We all wash our hands as soon as we come home from a walk, even if we’ve not touched anything while we were out.

The whole family now naturally cough into our elbows instead of our hands like we used to.

I wonder how long it’ll take before those kind of new habits start to fade away.

Do you think they will?

Do you think that we’ll all revert to our old habits quite quickly, or will we always now be more mindful of touching our faces and washing our hands?

 

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