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Coping with teething

I don’t remember Rhys suffering too badly with teething.  I know he used to get a runny nose with it and was a bit unsettled, but nothing too bad.  Maybe I’ve just blanked out the memory of how bad it was?  I’m convinced that happens, something in the Mummy brain gently softens the memories of the hard times.  Otherwise no one would have more than one baby I suppose!

At the moment though, there’s no getting away from it.  Nerys is cutting 4 molars at the same time and oh dear God is she suffering!  At first I thought it was just the bottom two that were coming through, until I rubbed some teething gel on her gums and realised the top ones were starting to poke through as well.  No wonder she’s been in such a state.

And she really has been in a state.  For a lot of the day she’ll seem ok, then it’ll all get too much and she’ll be beside herself.  She just doesn’t know what to do with herself (Ah great, now I’ve got this song stuck in my head!).

I’m hoping the teeth are nearly through and she’ll be back to her sunny self soon, but in the meantime here’s how we’re coping:

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Have a little patience
When Nerys herself doesn’t even know what she wants it’s really hard to know what to do to help her!  I’m trying my best to be as patient as I can through the times of “I want you to pick me up, No I don’t want you to pick me up, I want that, No I want THAT, No I want THAT so that I can throw it”

Medication (for her)
When we can see she’s in pain with her teeth we’ll tend to dose her up with some painkillers to try and take the edge off for her.  I read recently that ibuprofen is best for teething pain as it helps with the inflammation of the gums as well as the pain.

Medication (for you)
Making sure I have a steady supply of chocolate and coffee helps keep me sane amidst all the screaming.  Ibuprofen for the screaming-induced headache helps also.

Alternative therapies
Lots of parents swear by Ashton and Parsons teething powder and it does seem to help calm Nerys down when she’s really suffering.  We also find Nelsons Teetha powder really good.
Nelsons teething gel has been a real help too; the combination of the magic power of the gel and the counter pressure on her gums seems to make her feel a bit better.

Something to chew on
This idea of counter pressure on the gums is also the main thinking behind this idea of giving them something to chew/bite on.  Suggestions from around the internet include giving them;

  • a stick of cucumber straight from the fridge
  • some ice wrapped in a muslin or flannel
  • a bagel that’s been in the fridge
  • specialist teething biscuits
  • a teething ring or other kind of teether – we foundthese were the best for Rhys

Nerys hasn’t really taken to any of these things, choosing instead to keep hold of the syringe after we give her some medicine and chewing on that!

Positive thinking!
I tell myself ‘this too shall pass’.  Over and over again.  As loud as I can, to try and drown out the screaming!

Does anyone have any other suggestions for how to cope with teething?  I’d love to hear if you have a miracle solution, or if you’re just suffering too, misery loves company and all that!

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Mummy was there – project complete!

During the month of March I decided to carry out a personal photography project in an extended celebration of Mothering Sunday!

I aimed to get in front of the camera with my family every day for a month, after realising that I take a lot of photos of my children but there really aren’t that many of me with them.  I know that when they’re older they’ll really appreciate being able to look back at these photos of all of us together, rather than just thousands of photos of just them!

I love all of the photos that we got during March and we all had a lot of fun playing with the self-timer on the camera.  I won’t be jumping in front of the camera every day from now on, but I will definitely make the effort to be in a lot more photos.

What about you?  Do you make the effort to #existinphotos for your children?

Week in review – Sunday 5th April 2015

Thanks to a combination of a strange 12 hour tummy bug and a teething baby who didn’t want to settle to sleep last night, this didn’t get posted quite on time!  Oh well, these things happen!

A day late, here’s what we got up to last week:

  • We had a lovely time with my brother-in-law, his wife and their daughter who were visiting from the Isle of Man.

 

  • Rhys had a great time exploring the rocks with his Uncle at Caswell Bay.

 

  • We spent a fab afternoon catching up with family (and extended family) on Good Friday.

 

  • The sun came out on Saturday so I spent a very warm few hours in the park with a friend and our children.

 

  • I stopped breastfeeding Nerys; after a little over 13 months it seemed to be the right time for both of us for it to stop.  I think I’ll be writing more about this in another post!

 

  • Nerys started signing ‘thank you’, which makes me really happy!

 

I hope you all had a fab week and a lovely Easter weekend!

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Mummy was there – week four

I can’t believe March is almost over, and that I’ve made it to my last full week of this photography challenge that I set myself.

I’ve really enjoyed getting in photos with my family every day, and they seem to have had fun with it too!

I know I won’t carry on taking a photo like this every day, but it’s really brought into focus how important it is to make sure I get in pictures with them on a regular basis.  It makes me happy knowing that I’m existing in photos for them.  When they’re older, they’ll have photos of all of us together to look back on.

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Monday 23rd March 2015
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Tuesday 24th March 2015
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Wednesday 25th March 2015
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Thursday 26th March 2015
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Friday 27th March 2015
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Saturday 28th March 2015
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Sunday 29th March 2015
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Mummy was there – week three

I’m slightly disappointed with my efforts this week seeing as one day I just didn’t get round to getting in front of the camera.  But, rather than cheat and take 2 the next day, I’ve decided to just let it go!

So, one picture short, here are my photos from week three of my ‘Mummy was there’ photo project.

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Monday 16th March 2015

 

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Tuesday 16th March 2015

 

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Wednesday 18th March 2015

 

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Friday 20th March 2015

 

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Saturday 21st March 2015

 

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Sunday 22nd March 2015