There’s no place like home

I went home to see my family in Kent at the start of this past half term week, and have spent the time since thinking about that word – ‘home‘.

See, I’ve lived in Swansea for about 15 and a half years now.
This is where I’ve built my family, and my life.
This is home.

But, at the same time, my parent’s house in Kent is home also.
I grew up there.
I lived there for 18 years before leaving for University.
It’s home.  I mean, my parent’s landline number is listed on my phone under ‘home’!

So I’ve been feeling a bit confused, wondering what this word ‘home’ really means.

Is it a certain place?  A particular building?  Is it the place where special memories are made, or simply the place you return to every evening?

For me, I think it’s a mixture of all of those things.

Home is where there is history, where those special memories are made, where there is comfort and security.

Above all though, I think that home is where the people you love are.  And in that case, there really is no place like it.

There's no place like home 

So, my parent’s house in Kent is definitely still home, because my parents are there.  And even in the future when, for whatever reason, they’re no longer there, I think it will still be home because, to me, that house IS my parents.

They bought that house from the plans.  No one else has ever lived there.  All it’s memories are OUR memories.

And, while I’m not sure about this house I’m currently living in, Swansea in general is most definitely home too.  As soon as I moved here it felt right, then the moment I fell in love with my husband it felt like home.

I’m pretty lucky I think, to have two places to call home!

I’d love to know what you think about this.  Do you still call your childhood home ‘home’?  Or have you moved on to a new place that feels more ‘home’ to you now?!  

Cuddle Fairy
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