Try this to help find something you've lost

Try this one little trick to help you find something you’ve lost

I’ve seen a fair bit of debate over the last few years about whether or not baby brain actually exists.

And this is one occasion where I really don’t care what the research and evidence says, I’m convinced that it DOES exist!  I don’t know if it’s down to hormones, or changes in brain chemistry or if it’s just down to chronic lack of sleep, but I know that my mental faculties aren’t quite what they used to be!

And baby brain mixed with living with small children who like to move things and hide them in random places sometimes results in things disappearing.  Like the house keys when you need to head out on the school run – fun!

So any little tricks that can help me find lost items more quickly are good to know, and this trick in particular is useful and interesting:

Try this to help find something you've lost

Say the name of the missing item out loud.

It’s that simple.

As you’re looking around the house for your keys, say the word “keys” out loud as you search and you’ll find them more quickly than if you kept quiet!

A study carried out at the University of Wisconsin involved asking people to find 20 coloured drawings that were mixed in with 240 other drawings. Some of the participants were asked to keep quiet while they looked, and the others were asked to read the name of the thing they were looking for (the target) before they started looking.

The researchers found that “speaking the name of the target immediately prior to the search made the search significantly faster and more accurate.”

In other words, saying the name of the thing you’re looking for out loud really does help you to find it more quickly.

Another study, published in the Quarterly Journal of Experimental Psychology, produced the same results. The researchers suggest that talking can change the way our brains process information, effectively letting us concentrate better and that saying an object’s name out loud can improve our ability to “attend simultaneously to multiple regions of space containing the named objects and even make an otherwise invisible object visible”.

Pretty impressive!

Also, wandering round the house saying “keys” may well just prompt your 2 year old to tell you which shoe they put them in when they were playing with them earlier, so it’s got to be worth a try, even if you do sound a bit bonkers in the process!

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Living arrows – 6/52

Another week of cold and rain and general under-the-weatherness means we’ve once again not really ventured outside much.  I think we’re all starting to go a bit stir crazy and once storm Imogen goes on her merry way I think a good trip to the park is in order!

In the meantime though, we’re having lots of fun at home with sticker books and a growing collection of character toys.  Nerys has started to enjoy getting them all out of the basket and lining them up, just like Rhys used to do, which really makes me smile.

Here she is proudly showing off a well-loved and rather-worn-out-looking Sarah, before she went to join Mim Mim, the Twirly woos and about 6 Peppa Pigs!

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“You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth”

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Don’t postpone joy!

I’ve noticed something over the last few years of watching my son as he eats his food.

He’ll always eat his favourite thing first.

When that thing is all gone, he’ll move on to the next thing on his plate.  But he will always eat his favourite thing first.  Which makes me wonder, why do I find myself saving my favourite thing for last?  Why do I save things for a special occasion, or till some imagined time when I feel I’ll really savour it?

And the answer is that I just don’t know.  I don’t know why I find myself postponing joy, and so I’m making an effort to change.

I’m using a gorgeous, blue, there-isn’t-another-one-quite-like-it, hand-blown glass every day, whereas previously it has sat safely in the cupboard out of fear that it might get broken if I were to dare drink from it!

I’m scoffing the last few squares of chocolate from the cupboard and enjoying it, rather than saving them for another day when I think I’ll be able to enjoy them in peace.

I’m looking out for other situations where I find myself postponing joy, so that I can grab it with both hands instead.

I’m letting Ted Mosby be my inspiration, and learning to live by his words – don’t postpone joy!  

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I’d love to know if more people are like me, holding on to things until the ‘perfect’ time to enjoy them, and saving things for ‘best’, or if you’re all more like my son, seizing every opportunity for joy!  Please do leave me a commend and let me know!

 

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Living arrows 5/52

I am really enjoying watching the sibling bond develop between these two recently.  We’ve all been stuck in the house with horrible colds and chesty coughs, but they’ve been fab, only winding each other up a teeny bit!

More than anything, there’s been lots of hugs and kisses and holding hands which is just so lovely to watch.

I try to take a ‘headshot’ photo of both of them every day, with the aim of having a record of how they change and grow over the months and years.  Most of the time I end up taking these photos just before we have a bedtime story, and recently they’ve started asking for me to take a photo of them together as well.

This is one that I thought was pretty sweet!

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Only the welsh can cwtch

Only the Welsh can cwtch!

Has anyone else had ‘one of those months’ this January?!

It feels like it’s been a non-stop run of chesty coughs, snotty noses, fevers and aches and pains.

Rhys was off school for a week recently with a virus that just knocked him out, and by the sounds of it, half the children in his class have had the same thing.

All of which means, we’ve had lots of days of cwtching up on the sofa, wrapped up in blankets, watching Peppa pig and Team Umizoomi.  And one of the side effects has been a lot less time for me to keep on top of things with my business and with this blog (it’s hard to get much of anything done with 2 little ones who seem to want to be attached to you at all times!).

But, I’m hoping we’re starting to come out the other side, and I can get back on track with writing more blog posts and getting back into more of  a normal routine.  I have to admit though, at times it’s been really nice to just snuggle with my family, and I really love the fact that, at nearly 2, Nerys has the word ‘cwtch’ in her vocabulary!

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Have you got any tips for staying cold/flu-free in the winter months?  Or for coping with a house full of poorly little ones?!  I think I need to do some investigating and maybe put a post together with all the tips I can find, so I’ll be better prepared next winter!
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Living arrows 4/52

We’ve been the house of lurgy for over 2 weeks now.  Coughs, runny noses, sneezes, aches and pains, headaches and utter exhaustion.  We’ve had it all.

And then to top it all off, last week we found that Rhys had a lovely colony of lice in his hair.  So after treating him, then investing in a nitty gritty comb to keep them at bay (it’s fab by the way!), we decided it was probably time to get him to the hairdressers for quite a drastic chop of his gorgeous hair.

And here is the result – he looks so different!  You can see how he used to look in my living arrows picture from a few weeks ago.

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I think he looks great though, and was so proud of him.  We went to a proper grown-up hairdressers (no car-shaped seat or peppa pig dvd in sight) and he was brilliant.  No fuss at all, he just let the hairdresser get on with it, which is very different from how he used to be about having his haircut when he was a toddler!

Now, I’m off to take care of a poorly husband and wipe a poorly little girl’s nose.

Good times.  Good times.

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Nerys is at an age where she wants to do everything her big brother does.

Seriously, everything.

The other day he banged his elbow on something on the landing, so she went upstairs so she could bang her elbow too!

This is her playing with his Minions activity book, which she could get away with playing with while he was out at school.  I love how focused she is on what she’s doing, she seems so much older than she actually is at times!

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“You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.”

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