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Another letter of thanks

Last week I wrote an open letter of thanks to my Mum, in celebration of her birthday.  Well, today is my Dad’s birthday so it’s his turn!
Dear Daddy,

Thank you.

For working so hard to give us everything we needed when we were growing up.
Thank you.

For introducing me to a whole world of theatre – Shakespeare (especially Shakespeare-based musicals!), rock and roll music, and yes, even the opera.
Thank you.

For being there with a hug and a hanky after my teenage strops.
Thank you.

For the spaghetti and meatballs.
Thank you.

For squeezing skateboards and roller skates into the boot and driving all through the night every summer to get us safely to Antibes.
Thank you.

For providing seemingly endless supplies of 10 franc coins for games of pool.
Thank you.

For being wonderfully silly.
Thank you,

For ‘me taters and me hot fried fish’.
Thank you!

For being the one to bring me to Swansea, on both the open day and on my first day here.  You were just what I needed on those days.
Thank you.

For your constant support.
Thank you,

For everything, Daddy.
Thank you.

Happy birthday!
Loads of love,
Madeline
xxx

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A letter of thanks

Today is my Mum’s birthday.  It’s one of those days when I miss home a little bit, and wish I could see my parents a bit (ok, a lot) more often than I actually do.  But, in lieu of a teleporter to take me to Kent today, I’ve written this little letter to express how much she means to me and how thankful I am for everything she’s done for me.
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Dear Mummy,

Thank you.

For always letting me know how much I was wanted and how loved I am.
Thank you.

For everything you’ve taught me (academically and otherwise).
Thank you.

For putting up with me through the stroppy teenage years.
Thank you.

For the tipsy Sunday evening phone calls when I was a student.
Thank you.

For knowing me so well you knew I was in love before I did.
Thank you.

For understanding my choice to have a tiny wedding, for supporting that decision and for celebrating that day with us.
Thank you.

For talking me through my decision to stop breastfeeding Rhys.
Thank you.

For always supporting me.
Thank you.

For believing in me.
Thank you.

For letting me go.
Thank you.

For letting me know that you haven’t actually really let me go and that you are always, always there for me.
Thank you,

For everything, Mummy.
Thank you.

Happy birthday!

Loads of love,
Madeline
xxx

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little things to brighten up a hard day

10 little things to brighten up a hard day

I wrote a post the other day about how some days are just hard.  No matter how positive your outlook is and how good life generally is, it’s still the case that some days are just hard.  I try not to wallow for too long in that bleurgh place though.
So I’ve put together this list of 10 little things that I find help to brighten up those hard days.
10 little things to brighten up a hard day

 

1) Coffee.  
This is almost guaranteed to give me a little lift, assuming I can occupy the kids with the ipad or Mr Tumble for long enough for me to drink it!

 

2) A smile from your toddler.
Seriously, this can make a world of difference.

 

3) A huge hug from your child.  
There’s nothing like a good squeeze from a little one when you’re having a hard day.

Small things to help brighten up a bad day

4) Something cheesy or non-taxing on the tv.
If I can get away with it during the day, I’ll put on something for me on the tv.  Something really cheesy or a program that doesn’t require much brain-power but will make me laugh.  Friends repeats are always a winner for me!  Which leads me to number 5.

 

5) Watching old Friends bloopers on youtube.
Seriously.  If you’re having a rough day and need a giggle, go straight to youtube and watch a few outtake videos.  You’ll feel much better!

 

6) Browsing the ‘humour’ category on Pinterest.
There is always something on here that will bring a smile to my face.  Normally I end up laughing at a collection of the best posts from Tumblr or a ‘damn you autocorrect’ post.

 

7) A shower in peace.
If I can swing this it always makes me feel better.

 

8) Embracing the constant noise by turning some music up loud and having a little dance.
Sometimes when you’re home with children the constant noise and commotion can get a bit much.  And sometimes the best thing you can do is surrender to it.  Stick some music on, turn it up as loud as you dare and dance like crazy.

There's no place like home

 

9) Cleaning.
One thing that really adds to my bad mood at times is when the house is a state and I can’t see where to start.  If I can just get one flat surface clear, or even one seat in the living room cleared of ‘stuff’ then I begin to feel a bit better.

 

10) Chocolate.
Well, obviously!

What would you add to my list?  What makes you feel a bit brighter on a hard day?

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The week that was.

We had a pretty eventful start to the week last week.  On Monday afternoon Rhys slipped while playing and clunked his face on the edge of the big windowsill in our lounge.

I was so worried that he’d knocked a tooth out or really hurt himself, but after a trip to the doctor and the dentist I’m pretty certain that he’s ok!  He was pretty swollen and sore for a few days though, and we have to wait till his adult teeth come in to make sure he’s not done any damage to them, but fingers crossed he’ll be ok.

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After that drama at the start of the week we spent the rest of our days quite quietly, doing some baking, playing at home and venturing out for a little play at the park.  Rhys had a teddy bear’s picnic at school on Friday as one of his teachers, who was there on placement as part of her teacher training, was finishing her time with the class.  We made fairy cakes to take in as our contribution to the picnic, Rhys loves putting the sprinkles on the top!  I think he’ll really miss this particular teacher, she was just lovely.  Miss Pearson, if you ever read this, thank you for taking such good care of Rhys while you were at Parklands!

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Nerys has grown again this week, I’m sure.  Last time we weighed her she was on the 99th centile – no wonder people think she’s older than she is!  She definitely takes after her Daddy; she’ll be taller than me in no time!  I am really enjoying this stage with her, hearing her speech slowly develop and watching her cheeky personality emerge.  She’s going to be a real handful, I just know it!  But just look at those big blue eyes; she’ll get away with almost anything with a look like this!

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Things I've said to my toddler

Random things I’ve said to my toddler

Do you ever find yourself saying the most random things to your children?

I know I can’t be the only one who says things that, when you repeat them, sound completely odd!  I’ve started making a note of the more random things I’ve heard myself saying to my 15 month old daughter, here are 5 examples from the last few weeks:

Random things I've said to my toddler

 

“You can’t walk backwards up the stairs” 

Nerys has been climbing the stairs for ages now, and safely coming down them on her tummy for a few weeks, but she’s now started trying to walk down them.  And the other day I watched her try to walk up them backwards.  She’s an accident waiting to happen that one.

 

“What are you doing?  Why are you licking my DVD?”

There seems to be a lot of ‘why are you doing that?’ where kids are involved.  Generally the answer is simply ‘because they can’!

 

“Why are you standing in a colander?”

Well, why wouldn’t you stand in a colander, what else are they for?!

 

“I don’t want you driving a car on my head” 

Mean mummy, not wanting to be driven on.

 

“I don’t want your snot up my nose”

Ah one of the more charming moments of parenting; lying on the bed with Nerys and having her stick her finger in her snotty nose then try and put said finger up MY nose.  Hmmm, a kind offer, but no thank you honey!

What’s the most random thing you’ve heard yourself say to your children?

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my favourite welsh words and expressions

My favourite Welsh words and expressions

I’ve been living in Swansea for nearly 15 years, which is a little bit scary if I’m honest, mainly because it means that in 3 years time I’ll have lived here for longer than I lived in Kent!  I’m not sure I’m ready for that flip to happen!

I do love it here though, and have definitely picked up some Welsh-isms over the last 15 years.  Some are so ingrained in me now that I don’t even realise I’m saying anything that my English family might question!

So here are my favourite Welsh words and expressions, with a little explanation for those of you who might not have heard them before:

My favourite welsh words and expressions

My favourite words:

Dwti
I love this word for expressing that someone is small,  “ahh you’re so dwti”.

Twp
Stupid.  “Yeah, he’s a bit twp”

Cwtch
A really popular word, which is used in several ways, but the main one is for a cuddle/hug.  Can also be used as a verb, “They’re cwtching on the sofa”.

Tapped
A little bit unstable – “He’s tapped”.  When I worked in a call centre a few of my colleagues would tap on the desk to signal that the person they were on the phone with was ‘tapped’ if they were being really unreasonable!

Scram
Used instead of scratch, as in, “I scrammed myself on that tree” or “I’ve got a scram on my knee”

Picking 
When it’s just starting to rain, used instead of ‘spitting’.

 

Expressions I love but don’t say that often myself:

Ach-y-fi 
Love this.  It’s basically an exclamation of disgust, so if your child comes at you with mucky hands you might say “ach y fi” to them.

Cowin’ mega lush
This is quite a new one to me, even though, apparently, it’s a real Swansea thing!  The standard expression is ‘cowin’ lush’ which is basically ‘really great’, but one of my friends heard it said with the addition of ‘mega’ and thought it was brilliant so it’s kind of stuck.

Where to are you?
This is one that my friend Matt introduced me to.  The addition of the extra, unnecessary word ‘to’ used to drive me mad!  I don’t tend to say it much myself, but sometimes it slips out and my husband finds it hilarious when it does!

By there/by here
Used in response to the above phrase.  “Where to are you?”  “Over by here”.  Brilliant.

 

Expressions that I now use on a regular basis:

Now in a minute
Ah this one confused me for ages when I first moved here.  And now I say it all the time!  Basically, it means ‘in a little bit’.  The thing is, sometimes the ‘in a minute’ bit gets dropped so you’re just left with, what I call, the Welsh ‘now’.  I had a friend in Uni who used to say she’d be up to see me ‘now’ and it took me ages to work out she didn’t actually mean straight away, she meant in a little bit!

There you are then/There we are then
This is a bit of a hard one to explain!  I tend to use it to express that something is sorted, so if someone is telling me they’ve found a solution to a problem I’ll say ‘oh there you are then’.  It’s one of those expressions that has just sort of snuck into my speech!

After
The Welsh version of later.  Really confused me when I first moved here.  My friend Matt used to say ‘I’ll see you after’ and I’d always think, ‘after what?!’.  Took me a while to work out he just meant ‘later’.  Now I use it myself a fair bit!

 

Phrases that have slipped so subtly into my speech that I either didn’t even realise they were Welsh-isms or didn’t realise that I said them:

Fair do’s
An alternative to ‘fair play’, which I still say half the time.  So you might say “fair do’s, that soup was lush!”

Joking
This one really got me the other day when Steve and I were discussing words and expressions for this list, it’s really crept into my speech without me realising!  It’s used where you might use ‘pretend’ or ‘artificial’, so “I wanted some flowers for the table but they only had joking ones”

Gip/gyp
I’m not sure of the spelling of this one, but it’s used to express that something’s bothering you – “Nerys’ teeth are really giving her gyp at the moment”

 

Any Welsh people out there who might be reading this, please do correct me if you think I’ve got any of these wrong, but from my experience living in Swansea this is what I’ve picked up!

Any non-Welsh people, have you learnt anything new from my list?!

Baby first year photo 12 months

12 months of Nerys.

When I was pregnant with Nerys I spent a fair while browsing Pinterest looking for inspiration for how to capture her first year in photos.  There were quite a few really cute ideas, some using numbered vests, or blocks to spell out how old they are in each photo.  But in the end I decided to keep it simple and just aim for a headshot style photo every month for the year.

I did want some consistency in the photos though, to tie them all together at the end, so I decided to lie her down on her gorgeous, brightly coloured blanket for each photo.  I’m so pleased with the results!  And it’s only taken me three months to edit and put them all together!

I took quite a few photos at each sitting, so to start with here are a few of the more random ones that I really love:

And here is my final selection of photos, one each month for Nerys’ first year:
Baby first year photo 12 months  

I’m so pleased I took the time each month to take these photos and am really happy with the end result!

What do you think?!  Did you do anything similar for your baby?

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