When it comes to feeling, and looking, good a lot of the time it comes down to being confident in who you are. To completely and utterly accepting and loving your body and being comfortable in your own skin.
There are some tips though that have stood the test of time in picking out clothes that you feel great wearing and that make you walk with that extra bit of confidence.
Making a traditionally sexy look work
Although perceptions of what is considered sexy have definitely changed in the past few years, many people remain traditional in their views.
If you’re in the mood for a more sexy look after months of living in joggers, then these tips can help:
A sleek skirt or a sexy dress that skims and hugs your curves is great, but it can also be sophisticated enough to wear at work. Another great option is a light, flirty dress with an appealing front and back view.
Try adding a more masculine element, like a blazer, to a floaty dress to take it from playful to sexy. There is no need to be underdressed or try too hard in order to get your outfit seen!
It should be right for you
Without exception, clothing should always be the right size for you. Wearing something that is way too big or much too small is never flattering, and can either draw focus to the wrong areas or make you look frumpy. Don’t be shy to ask the sales assistants in the store for help – avoiding ill-fitting clothing is a big deal, and should not be underestimated in the search for the perfect sexy dress.
Most women will recall a time when they put something on, looked in the mirror, and wondered if the outfit was “too much”. Think about the times you’ve felt like this. Chances are you might have been wearing something that something that didn’t match your personality and just didn’t feel like ‘you’.
Let the colour do the talking
Never underestimate colour, particularly red, when trying to be more sexy. Years of research and experience have shown that red is a “drawing” colour, making people more noticeable and ore appealing to one another.
The data is truly in – wear more red, even if you wear an oversized sweater! The same goes for make up – a stylish red lipstick on an otherwise neutral face, or a dab of red nail polish can go a long way in not only rounding off the look, but adding some spice and attention to it!
Zone it off
Alternating zones is the perfect way to dress up and show off your personality, regardless of your age, body type, or shape.
Broadly, it means focusing on one zone at a time. Busy top half? Tone down the bottom. Revealing some leg? Cover up your arms. Easy!
Because it is a guideline, it gives you enough freedom to adapt it to your needs, but because it gives structure, it can help you to create a solid look that works for you, while taking your personal preferences into account.
Disclosure: this is a collaborative post